How POTS, MCAS, and Chronic Illness Impact Mental Health (and How Therapy Can Help You Heal)

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How POTS, MCAS, and Chronic Illness Impact Mental Health

If you live with POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome), MCAS (Mast Cell Activation Syndrome), Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, autoimmune conditions, or other chronic illnesses, you may have been told that your anxiety is “just stress” or that your depression is “separate” from your physical symptoms. But the truth is far more complex—and far more compassionate.

Your nervous system, immune system, and emotional world are deeply interconnected. When your body is chronically dysregulated, your mental health will be too. Understanding this connection can be life-changing—and therapy can be a powerful part of healing.

Why Chronic Illness Often Leads to Anxiety and Depression

Many people with POTS and MCAS experience symptoms like:

  • Racing heart

  • Dizziness or fainting

  • Brain fog

  • Shortness of breath

  • GI distress

  • Histamine reactions

  • Fatigue and pain

These symptoms closely resemble panic attacks. Over time, your nervous system learns to stay in survival mode. This isn’t psychological weakness—it’s neurobiology.

When your body keeps sending danger signals, your brain adapts by becoming hypervigilant. You may start to feel:

  • Constant anxiety or impending doom

  • Fear of leaving home

  • Health anxiety

  • Social withdrawal

  • Depression and grief

  • Trauma responses

Many clients with chronic illness develop medical trauma from being dismissed, misdiagnosed, or not believed. Over time, this creates deep emotional wounds that live inside the nervous system.

The Nervous System–Immune System Loop

In conditions like POTS and MCAS, the body is already dysregulated. Therapy helps by addressing the feedback loop between:

  • Stress

  • Trauma

  • Autonomic nervous system

  • Immune activation

  • Emotional processing

When trauma, grief, or long-term stress is stored in the body, it can worsen inflammation, histamine release, and autonomic instability. This means mental health symptoms are not separate from physical illness—they are part of the same system.

Why Traditional Talk Therapy Often Isn’t Enough

Many people with chronic illness try therapy and feel frustrated when it doesn’t help. That’s because cognitive or talk-based therapy alone cannot calm a dysregulated nervous system.

What helps is trauma-informed, body-based therapy that works directly with the brain and nervous system.

How Trauma-Informed Therapy Helps People With POTS & MCAS

The most effective approaches are those that work bottom-up, not just top-down.

EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing)

EMDR helps process:

  • Medical trauma

  • Fear of symptoms

  • Past hospitalizations

  • Loss of identity and safety

It allows the brain to re-file traumatic experiences so your nervous system no longer reacts as if danger is still happening.

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

IFS helps you work with:

  • The part of you that is terrified of symptoms

  • The part that pushes yourself too hard

  • The part that feels hopeless or ashamed

This creates internal safety, which reduces stress on the body.

Nervous System Regulation & Somatic Therapy

Learning to regulate your body helps:

  • Reduce panic

  • Improve sleep

  • Lower symptom flare frequency

  • Increase resilience

When your nervous system feels safer, your body follows.

Chronic Illness Is a Loss — And Loss Requires Grief Work

Many people don’t realize they are grieving:

  • Their old body

  • Their independence

  • Their future

  • Their career

  • Their relationships

Unprocessed grief turns into depression, anger, or shutdown. Therapy creates space to mourn, adapt, and rebuild a meaningful life—even with illness.

You Are Not Broken — Your Body Is Trying to Protect You

Your anxiety is not a character flaw. Your depression is not laziness. Your nervous system is responding to real physical stress.

When therapy is done in a trauma-informed way, it helps your body learn:

“I am safer now.”

And when the body feels safer, symptoms often soften.

How I Help Clients With Chronic Illness

In my practice, I specialize in helping people who are high-functioning on the outside but struggling deeply on the inside—especially those living with medical complexity, trauma, and nervous system dysregulation.

I integrate:

  • EMDR

  • Attachment-based therapy

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)

  • Nervous system regulation

  • Trauma-informed care

to help clients feel safer in their bodies and more grounded in their lives.

You Don’t Have to Do This Alone

If you live with POTS, MCAS, autoimmune illness, or chronic symptoms—and feel anxious, hopeless, or emotionally exhausted—you deserve support that understands the full picture.

Healing is not about “thinking positive.” It’s about helping your nervous system learn that it’s no longer in danger.

And that kind of healing is possible.